While I am speaking to the new folk:
If you have come here expecting a place free of strife, drama, sadness and "discourse", you will be sorely disappointed.
This is a place where we cry, we get angry and fight, bicker and yes, "discourse". We mourn our lost ones. We talk shit about others in followers only posts.
The difference being that over here your emotions aren't being exploited and manipulated by a corporation looking only to next quarter's earnings.